I am Disappointed.

Life is not perfect. we all know that. Even if we have the happiest life possible, there is always that thing that doesn’t make the whole picture perfect. It can be even the smallest and the stupidest of the details, however that thing will not allow us to say “i am happy and there’s nothing i can’t complain!”. That happens to me pretty often. I can live a good period of my life, but there is always something that make me thing “it’s all fine, but it can be better!” Today’s bloganuary daily prompt is related to annoying things and more specifically:

Bloganuary writing prompt
What do you complain about the most?

Money.

I can bet everything i have that i am not here alone right now. Every single one of us complains about the fact that money are never enough. I would love to wake me up one day and say “oh, money are no problems!” but i don’t belong to that 1% of the popolations with billions of dollars in the bank account. I belong to the 99% of the population that go to work, doesn’t earn lot of money and we have to make choices just to get until the end of the month.

I complain about money, but not as much as you might thing. The problem i have with money is very funny. As long as i don’t have to buy anything it’s all fine. As soon as i see something and my brain tells me “we need it!”, i notice the price and i am like “nope, not for my wallet!” And i got sad, because i want that thing badly, but i can’t have it. Luckly for me, i have always in mind one of the lessons my dad told me: “if you can do it now, do it, otherwise wait until you can!” With that philosophy i have been able to buy almost all the things i wanted. The wishlist is not that long anymore. Actually, there is only one position open: a house. Apart from that huge source of complain (because not having my own place is quite annoying), i did everything i had to do.

Body.

I love muscles. I am not that guy that hit the gym every single day (to be honest, i have never been to the gym in my entire life), but i would love to have muscle on my body. I don’t want anything big, but just a nice looking body. You know, something you can look at the mirror and say “you look nice!”

For all my life, i have complained about the fact that men all over the globe are able to get their body in shape and i could not. Well, what i didn’t want to see is the huge effort those men and women put in order to get the body they had. Between working out, diet and making sure to do everything properly is not an easy task. In my mind, people were born in that way and i put the blame on my genetics, saying “i would never ever have that body in my life”.

in 2024 i started to do some fitness at home and i tell you that it is working. I am still a work in progress, but i am seeing the first results already. This is very nice. However, i complain about the fact that it’s painful, hard and something i don’t have time to do nothing. I know, sometimes my brain doesn’t really understand. When we talk about my body, there is always something to complain about.

Social Media.

Let’s start saying i am a big fan of social media. I love the idea to share my thought with the world and it is fascinating to give people the opportunity to stay in touch with friends and family, even if there are hundreds of even thousand of kilometres inbetween.

The thing that makes me mad is the way people use social media. I am not complaining at all about those, who get almost naked. In my opinion, getting mad because someone shows his/her body and he/she is happy with it, is very stupid. I am fine with all the men and women who decided to celebrate their love for what nature gave them.

I complain about all the people that are so angry, sad, disappointed and frustraded in real life and they have to throw all those bad feeling on social media, insulting this or that account. I hate when i see bad comments or bad words written against someone who has not fault. I mean, why must someone insult a naked woman saying she is a … you can add the insult. She did nothing wrong. Celebrating our own beauty must be a moment of positivity and appreciation, not a moment of humiliation.

Even worse is when somone share a thought about something. It can be anything. We always say that we have freedom of speech and we have the right of saying what we want. However, it seems that this right is only for the one who shares and only if the comment is positive. As soon as the comment is negative, we start to insult that person saying very mean things. Sometimes, a post can be a battlefield and not a comment section. I hate that.

final conclusions.

These are the main three thing i complain the most about. I don’t like to be poor, that i have to make so much effort to have a good looking body and to see that platforms are used to destroy and not to create.

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With Love

Mauro.

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